Can someone please explain why is it so wrong that if I don't take my husband to court. We separated after 18 years still on good terms. But people are saying I should take him to court . I should get the house. But I wasn't the one started working at 16 and saved all that money. He did and people frown on me for that. Am I wrong for defending him by saying he earned it with his money. I just wanted to say I think that a lot of people out there abuse the courts and are greedy.